Saturday, January 21, 2012

Atomicity of L,O,V,E..!!!!



Apart from L,O,V,E: "My LOVE"

Being a victim of this Eternal Bliss, I always denied the so called statement "Love HAPPENS only once , rest is just life.."
In my previous blog, I mentioned what People think of LOVE .. But now, It's time to reveal MY diction meaning of LOVE.

Well, I also found someone very special (by LUCK), I talked to Somebody 'for hours, for months, for years', I fell for her(day by day), I started caring for minute things which hardly matters, 

I proposed 'her', I was crushed, I cried for 'her', I apologised to 'her', I turned the things back to the normal just to bring 'her' (back), "I was hopeful if I just stuck with 'her', she would change 'her' mind", 

I spent quality time with 'her', I did stupid things for 'her', I (again) let my heart to overcome my brains just for 'her', I (again) proposed 'her', I (again-'PART-2') got the same reply from 'her', I got lost in MYSELF (again).

I never ashamed of all the time and energy I put into, trying to win her heart over and failing. I almost gave up trying to be her "GUY" and eventually, she gave up trying to be my "Somebody". 

I felt ashamed for "facebook stalking" her; for looking at her status' and pictures' and longing for her just to keep myself updated. But it all ended in vain.
People used to say that I'm obsessed with a girl, I can't have. And I just respond them with a SMILE which looks fake to them.

I started looking for the alternatives just to get rid of the wonderful memories(in which 'I' and 'She' played our characters together). Everytime, I talked to a girl, I started searching her and in last, "NO RESULTS FOUND" appears, and this output kills a part of Me. I smiled at my Life's desktop, my doings and my FATE.  

I always believed if this "Love" happens only once, then Pyaar, ISHQ, MOHABBAT etc... are still to play their parts.

But I guess, I was wrong. I still want 'HER'....


Disclaimer"The characters in this POST are fictitious and any resemblance to persons living or dead is purely coincidental."

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Anatomy of L,O,V,E... !!!!


I don’t know what  L, O , V, E is all about, but I have heard people saying that they can’t live without their loved ones. And when I asked them the definition of love, they were unable to explain its sanctity. That sounds quite strange to me.
I asked many people who were having a very good time with their loved ones. One of my friend explained   “I’m not getting the exact words to define love but one thing I must say, I have reached that level of love which is ultimate, it is an eternal bliss and am lucky enough to have her.”  Well…After listening to his reply, I realized what the hell I have been doing all this while that I am still unaware of this *ETERNAL BLISS*.

I got confused after his cunning reply and shared this thing with my roommate. He said “Robs there is nothing like True Love. It’s all about one night stand. It’s the game of hormones not hearts. And nobody can escape from this”. That time I laughed because of his thoughts.  
Before I could speak, all of a sudden our sweeper intervened and said  “Love -Shav kuch nahi hota sahab. Sab time pass hota hai.”(Love is nothing but it’s all about passing time).
I was getting familiar about the people views. 

But still , I was sailing in the same boat. I approached many people and asked their comments about this L, O, V, E and they started quoting examples to show me their mutual understanding and their love for each other.
One of the guy said, “Love is when you are driving a car at the speed of 100kmph and your mobile vibrates for a second, you take the car to one corner, pause for a second and text her back.” He justified his answer by saying that his passion for car driving has been replaced by the love for his princess. How cud people go crazy for their loved ones? That was like “aaaarrrggghhh”
One girl said “ Robin, Love can't be defined, love is immortal. It can't be understood, but it can be experienced. My day is incomplete without his morning text, a big hug, gentle kiss on my forehead,……”  I replied “ Miss, If I’m not wrong, I haven’t asked about your daily routine.”
People who think LOVE can’t be defined, in my opinion, they may be in the queue to get to understand its charm or they are not willing to reveal their craziness or madness for their loved ones. Every person who is in love should have the ability to define all of its four strings.

The definition of love no matter varies from people to people but it surely is an eternal bliss. I’m yet to experience.